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I love August! I get to hear from almost every one of my newest home owners! This is the month that North Carolina tax bills arrive. I should be getting mine soon judging from the emails in my inbox and the text messages on my blackberry.
There are many reasons why first-timers are some of my favorite clients, not the least of which is that you are so excited about your newest venture in life – being a home owner. But I’m sure you know that enthusiasm sometimes overshadows the not so exciting information we ask you to absorb during the closing process. 'How to pay a tax bill' seems to be at the bottom of any list of to-dos for a newbie. I get that. But by August, tax bills are at the top of that list. Nothing better than a bill from the state for thousands of dollars to get your attention.
Here’s a little rewind for those of you who may have missed this little tidbit at the closing table.
“Sometime in August you will receive a bill for your property taxes from your county in North Carolina. Hang on to it until you make your mortgage payment for September. Slip that bill into the envelope with your monthly payment and send it right on over to your lender. They will pay the bill.
When we went to closing the lender escrowed the portion of the taxes paid by the seller for the time they lived in the house. You still have September thru December to make your mortgage payments and a portion of that is being escrowed to make up the portion of the taxes you owe for the time you have lived there. The lender will send a check to your county in December – they just don’t know exactly how much or where to send it until you give them the bill!”
I know, I know, I could call you all in July and remind you but how much fun would that be? Today I got a great email from a young client who told me that when the bill for thousands of $$ arrived yesterday her husband remembered something I’d told them about it. (points) He checked his iPhone and there it was “Don’t Pay The Property Tax Bill.” She figured there was more to the story. She also invited me over to celebrate their little ones birthday on Saturday. (score!)
Many of you could be my kids and sometimes there is a perverse pleasure in the moment you get a panic call from a kid and you get to solve the problem with a simple solution and your kid is forever grateful. Don’t know what I mean? Ask your mom.
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Say “leverage” these days and who doesn’t picture Wall Street, failed banks or greedy CEOs? Seems like the folks who got all excited when they heard the definition of the word a few years back forgot to read the caveat in the brackets:
FINANCIAL LEVERAGE - investing with borrowed money as a way to amplify potential gains (at the risk of greater losses)
But should we remove the word from our vocabularies because a few bad apples have co-opted it? I’ve always like the word, personally. When I was a kid I learned that ‘leverage’ was the big advantage you had when trying to move something huge by simply being in position to use a lever. When I was in college I was pleased to realize that ‘leverage’ had intellectual value as well; how much more we could accomplish in a study group than trying to cram all alone into the night. When I began volunteering in my community I learned that altruism can be leveraged. Just because doing something for someone else makes you, personally, feel good doesn’t mean you can’t do it in such a way as to influence others to give more of themselves…all to the benefit of your recipient. Once I was out working in my chosen profession as a residential real estate broker, I learned quickly that in a negotiation, leverage is a measure of which side, at any given moment, has a greater ability to influence the other side. What better value for my clients…I wanted to BE that word.
And what a great word it is…with lots of nuanced meanings, most good, but all applicable to real estate.
Normative leverage is the application of general norms or the other party's standards and norms to advance one's own arguments for one's own good. There is huge advantage in having a complete understanding of the terms, conditions and applications of a real estate contract and all the ancillary addenda as well as being versed in the ‘standard practice’ for a specific area.
Positive leverage is a negotiator's ability to provide things that his opponent wants. Understanding that there are real people on both sides of a real estate contract and knowing how to present options in such a way as to provide a winning experience for each side is a skill I have knowingly cultivated and employ always on behalf of my clients.
Buyer leverage is the amount of bargaining power that buyers have when purchasing goods and services. I haven’t met a buyer lately who didn’t know s/he had this kind of leverage…but knowing exactly how and when to use it is my specialty.
Negative leverage is a negotiator's ability to make his opponent suffer. I wish I could say I never saw this kind of leverage in real estate transactions but it takes all kinds to make a world…knowing how to AVOID falling victim to this kind of manipulation is equally important for my clients. My experience allows me to serve as a buffer against the problems caused by this kind of leverage.
Leverage, for me, is any influence which is compounded or used to gain an advantage. Unfortunately, there are a few folks in this world who seem to forget that just because you CAN doesn’t mean you SHOULD. Operating with integrity is a decision.
I have spent 30 years doing what I love to do…help buyers and sellers accomplish their goals and the combined experience of all that work gives me a huge amount of leverage which I exert on behalf of my clients. When you decide to position yourself to make one of the largest financial decisions that you may ever make in your life, why would you choose NOT to leverage my knowledge and experience in your own best interest?
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I recently bought a great book at the Hillsborough Visitors Center called "Orange County Trio" by Elizabeth Shreve Ryan. It's a great tour book and historical guide to the three main cities that make up Orange County, NC as well as the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill (my alma mater!) Well written and easy to follow, it has walking tours at the end of each chapter. I had a good time making up this Google Map Guide of the Carrboro Walking Tour! If you click on each stop you can see the street level picture of each spot, some of which had to be repositioned to be accurate. I was able to add information about each place and can even go back and add video if I want to! What a fun tool! I'll be adding the tours for the other areas as well! Enjoy!
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SarahGray Lamm is a licensed, full time, residential Broker in the Triangle of North Carolina. She specializes in serving the real estate needs of home owners and home buyers in Chapel Hill, Carrboro, SW Durham and Northern Chatham County. With over 60,000 hours of experience in North Carolina real estate, SarahGray is proudly associated with Allen Tate Realtors , the Carolinas largest independent real estate company, ranking #8 in the nation. With exceptional relationships all over the Carolinas, SarahGray is able to connect you with other professionals in all areas who will make your home buying or selling experience the best you have ever had!
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Remember the old days? Everybody you knew worked ALL the time and when a holiday like The Fourth of July rolled around you finally got a chance to let your hair down and hang out with some good friends and family for a few hours? That was back in the day... BEFORE we had tech stocks in our portfolios and investment property was something you 'flipped' for profit. Before we had money burning holes in our pockets just begging to be spent. Holidays were a one day respite in the month. OK, maybe a weekend. No airplanes. No packing the car. Just cooking out with the neighbors, maybe a movie. Everybody trooping down to the baseball stadium to see the fireworks with the rest of your community.
Then the boom years came. We didn't take a day off when there was a holiday like the Fourth, we booked a weekend...we headed out to the airport to go grill with friends half way across the country. We snagged a deal and went to London for the weekend or found a cruise ship heading to the islands. Did you know there are International Fireworks Competitions held in really great cities around the world every year? Now THAT'S what I call fireworks!!! No remorse. Nobody in the their right mind would call you and ask if they could see houses on a holiday. Are you kidding? The seller probably had company in from out of town anyway.
Welcome to 2009! We are all rediscovering the rewards of hanging out close to home. I'll be grilling out with my neighbors this Fourth of July. Kind of a pitch in, everybody brings stuff and we'll drink lemonade and other stuff. I'll be getting up early to go to the Carrboro Farmer's Market to find fresh goodies for the evening get together. And I'm looking forward to it. It'll be a nice break after a day of showing houses. Yep, I'm showing houses on the Fourth. I have a great client who needs to look then because he, well, has to work.
Fine by me...can't think of a better way to spend my Fourth than doing something All-American...WORKING!!!
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SarahGray Lamm is a licensed, full time, residential Broker in the Triangle of North Carolina. She specializes in serving the real estate needs of home owners and home buyers in Chapel Hill, Carrboro, SW Durham and Northern Chatham County. With over 60,000 hours of experience in North Carolina real estate, SarahGray is proudly associated with Allen Tate Realtors , the Carolinas largest independent real estate company. With exceptional relationships all over the Carolinas, SarahGray is able to connect you with other professionals in all areas who will make your home buying or selling experience the best you have ever had!
Use of any content from the Agent Outlier Blog without permission of the owner is a violation of federal copyright laws .
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Carrboro's 2009 36th. Annual Community 4th of July Celebration! |
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9:30 - 11 am - Kick Off Activities on The Lawn of Weaver Street Market 9:30 - Music by Tim Stambaugh and Friends 10:00 am - Design Booths are open for Patriotic Tattoos, Hat Making and Bike & Wagon Decorating 10-10:30 am - Patriotic Costume Contest (Must register by 10:30 am) Categories: 1-5, 6-10, 11-15, Family/Group, Bike, Trike/Wagon, Scooter/Other 10:45 am - Costume Winners Announced ~ 10:50 am - Parade Assembly |
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| MAIN STAGE | FUN ZONE STAGE | GAMES/CONTESTS |
![]() 10:30 - Village Band 11:15 - Bolin Creek Harmony Boys 11:30 - Cane Creek Cloggers 12:00 - Big Mama E and The Cool 2:15 - The Mighty Gospel Inspirations |
11:00 - Captain Jim's Magic Show 12:45 - Trish Miller 1:30 - Pie Eating Contest The contest will be divided into 4 age groups. Please complete and submit the Entry Form by July 2nd ![]() |
![]() 12:00 - Watermelon Seed Spitting Contest 12:30 - Limbo 12:30 - Sack races 2:40 - Water balloon Toss |
| There will be Bingo in the Board Room at 1:30 | ||
| Toddler Square feature sandboxes, water tables, an inflatable obstacle course, and a Baby Crawl Contest at 1:00! |
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Pictures of July 4, 2008 in Carrboro Click here for Fireworks! Interactive Fireworks! Town Hall & Commons Map |
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