It comes to us alll.....

What an amazing last 5 days me and my family had!

Last Wednesday night, my childhood friend, cousin, and close family member, got murdered by her estranged husband. I couldn't believe it. Her 22 year old husband, was very abusive, controlling, and jealous. She filed for divorce at least 6 months ago, and they were 1 month away from finalizing the divorce. He chose to end her life and his own on March 19, 2008. It was her day to spend time with here 15 year old son, and went to pick him up as she normally did after her counseling session. And as she beeps the horn for her 15 year old son. The ex-husband comes out, shoots her in the eye, bullet comes out of the side of her head. He pushes her over, and drives to the back of a church 1/2 a mile away from the house. He shoots her again in the chest to make sure she is dead, and makes several phone calls to his 2 oldest daughters, and his brothers telling them about what he did and what he was going to do to himself. The name of my friend and cousin, was Maria Gjolaj growing up, then married George Djelaj at age 16. Unbelievable indeed. Death comes to us all, one way or another. Please pray for the 4 remaining children, and lift them up, that good things will come from a bad situation.

Lu Kalaj