Children and Moving

When a family move becomes inevitable, it is important to involve your children in the process. Since moving can cause some concerns for children, like going to a new school, leaving friends, and unfamiliarity about the new neighborhood, things will go a lot easier if your children support your efforts to get your current home sold. It is important that children keep their toys and clothes put away, and teenagers understand about keeping their room in "showing" condition. Also, showing a family home is much more successful for the realtor if the family is away. Make an effort to include everyone in the discussions about the move and your children on house hunting trips. Contact a realtor who is comfortable with children and will be sensitive to their needs and concerns.

New House, New School?
Try This...

• If possible, give your child three months' notice before an upcoming move, so that he has time to get used to the idea.
• Explain the reason for relocating.
• Familiarize your child with her new neighborhood ahead of time.
• Emphasize the positive aspects of the move.
• Contact the school your child will be attending and arrange a time to visit.