The very word divorce can create unease in most people. Divorce presents change and choices- some that people would rather not make. Topping the list is what to do with the home the family has shared for so long. For many women, the home is the foundation of family life and a safe harbor from everyday demands. Women typically have stronger emotional attachments to the marital home, and as a result, to sell or stay can be an emotionally and financially wrenching decision. Many might not understand the options and are often told there is no choice, the easiest path is to sell, wipe the slate clean and move on. This is mentioned because statistics show that women, on average, experience a 73% reduction in their financial position. They are frequently the primary care givers in the family and work history and income can reflect this role. They leave the workforce to care for children and scale back to care for aging family members. For every dollar a man earns a woman averages seventy nine cents. These facts present a hurdle for women facing divorce as they anticipate the simultaneous family shift to traditionally be the principle caretaker and now, possibly sole financial provider. Counseling with the family making this transition is imperative. Explain fully the options based on real numbers and market conditions. It's easy to take a listing, but explore if that is really what all parties want. Should the woman feel staying is the best option, walk her through the numbers of what that will mean for her financially. Perhaps it will be revealed that staying just isn't financially feasible, and this will enable her to make a truly informed decision before signing the final agreement. With present market conditions in most areas it is more important than ever that families have a real estate professional to guide them as they asses their choices. We can create a trusted team of professionals, including a lender, financial planner, and tax specialist to do what is in their best interest. Discuss with them their present and future goals. The level of anxiety is high with both parties, but we as Realtors can play a vital role in helping to diffuse this conflict and fear.
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