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I was recently contacted by an old friend on FaceBook. While we were catching up I told him I was about to skydive for the first time. He was very excited because he has been wanting to do it for many years. As we traded messages back and forth I was even more encouraged to dive.

My phone and email have been blowing up with my friends asking me how the dive went. Instead of telling the same story repeatedly I decided to post my letter to Mike. His first jump will be July 11, so he wanted all the details.

"I don't want to influence your experience by giving you too many details. It will be different for everyone. As you know, I fear many things so it was a very big deal for me. I had little sleep the night before and the drive was nerve racking. I went to Skydive Dallas. It is located 1hr north of McKinney. From the first phone call I made to them I could tell they were an organized operation. I highly recommend them to anyone considering doing this.

Upon arrival I checked in and signed many pages of legal documents. They all basically said they would not be held liable if something happened. There were six other first time divers checking in.

We went into a small room and watched a short video showing us how to arch and various ways of landing depending upon the instructor and wind. Then we went to the hanger. Our names were placed on a dry erase board and we were assigned a dive number along with an instructor and photographer. About 30mins prior to take off we put on jumpsuits and our individual instructors gave us instructions and fitted us with the equipment. The photographer interviewed us on camera and took pictures. It was a hot day and the suit was heavy with the equipment. I am only 5'2" and 120lbs so perhaps it was a challenge due to my size. FYI- Skydive Dallas will not let anyone dive over 210lbs.

We waited for another twenty minutes before we boarded the plane. While we waited we got to see other people coming down solo and tandem. It was way cool!

The photographer interviewed me again while on the plane. The instructor gave additional safety tips while the plane was rising to 13,500 ft. At some point the instructor strapped himself to me. My shoulders are a little narrow so the straps were not tight. It was not a big deal because the instructor was attached but it tugged and bruised just a little.

The photographer went out first and held onto the plane like something out of a spy movie. I was the first one to jump! I could hear most of what my instructor was saying but the wind was loud at first.

Once the chute opened it was quieter and it felt like we were flying. Everything was very clear and bright. He let me steer the chute a bit and taught me how to do a couple of tricks.

The landing was perfect! The photographer was already on the ground so he came up to interview me again and take more pics. The instructor took me into a back room to discuss the flight, give me a certificate, sign my flight log and asked me to fill out a survey about him and sign his flight log. He and the whole staff were terrific! They did a great job of calming my fears.

After the jump I was in a dazed state. I couldn't believe I did it. It made me feel completely invincible. Now I know I can and will do anything!!!

I would do it over and over again but it is expensive! I would love to be an instructor but with my small stature I think it is impossible. All the instructors seemed to be taller and stronger than the jumpers they were assigned to.

I hear sunset jumps are the most beautiful. I loved the one I did, however. I arrived at 9am but didn't jump until 12pm. I don't know if you remember but I have brown eyes with just a hint of green. My friends told me my eyes were bright green when I landed. I don't know if it was the lack of oxygen or the excitement. Also, there is a skydiver's hand shake- side ways open handed soft slap then bumping fists with your thumb up.

The video is really cool. It is surreal for me to watch it and my family loves it!

I hope I didn't give too much away. It will be different for you. This was one of my biggest fears so it probably affected me on other levels. You sound like a pro already! I cannot wait to hear about your experience.

Afterward, I had a celebratory beer at a nearby restaurant with friends and family. It was a lot of fun! The moment that sticks with me is when my 14 year old daughter Loren looked at me and said, "Mom, I am very proud of you." Now that is something worth taking a risk for."

I have to admit my eyebrow was raised when I saw the sign "Zaxby's Coming Soon" by the roadside. As in everything, google lead me to the answer. It is a very popular chicken franchise restaurant.

I dropped in to take pictures but the manager said I needed corporate approval so I cannot post them. I ordered wings to try them out. In my humble opinion I wouldn't say they are better than KFC (considering I love KFC).

So if you are in The Colony, TX. I suggest you give them a shot. They are located at 4547 Main St. You cannot miss them.

BTW- The crushed ice is a nice perk with the soft drinks.

We have a tradition in the Botting household- Every year we train for the Texas Round Up hosted in Austin, TX. This year the race will be held on April 25^th. Families from across the state come to compete in a 5k and 10k race. The program started in 2004 to promote wellness and healthier living for Texans. We are one of the largest states in the US but statistically one of the most under insured. It just makes good sense to make an effort to promote fitness.

Awards are given for the fittest Texan, fittest kid, and fittest family. Handicapped and wheel chair participants are also welcome to join in the event. The race takes you through the downtown area of Austin and the weather usually cooperates. The race ends at the state Capitol.

This is how WE do it- register on line for the race and book a room in Austin near downtown. We start training at least 60 days in advance by walking the track every night until we can reach a 10k momentum. (We also use swim training to help build strength and endurance). We show up at the booths early on race day because we stayed close by. We have four walkie talkies- one for me, one Tony, one for Amanda and one for Loren. There is usually a massive crowd and it is easy to lose track of your loved ones. (Cell phones get too sweaty). Amanda will outrun us all! The rest of us walk at a steady pace. As a family we are not concerned with coming in first or any particular placement in the race. Participating in the event and finishing the trek is what we shoot for.

If you live in Texas I would love to see you there. For those who do not live in Texas I would encourage you to enter a similar program with your family or by yourself. You will not regret it, I promise!

PS. Come on now! Don't make me go Denzel on you!

Yesterday I wrote a post regarding SNOW DAY. It had been raining in my area for a couple of days and the temperature was threatening to drop below freezing. The kids had a day off from school but it was a joke. There wasn't much ice and we all got a little bored.

Today is a different story. It started to sleet around 8pm last night and didn't stop until about 3am this morning. How do I know? My electricity went in and out. It is 21.9 so the precipitation is now a glaze on all the roads. Now this is what I call a snow day, without the snow. There is no chance we will leave the house today.

Yesterday was full of baking, playing Wii, watching movies, cooking a nice dinner, etc... If I had known we would be stuck again I would have stretched out some of that fun. Now what do we do?

This is a picture of my children and their friends enjoying a much warmer day!

In the Dallas/Fort Worth metroplex we have enjoyed a mild winter thus far. Most days we can get away with a light jacket or sweater to keep us warm. BUT NOT TODAY! It has been raining since yesterday and the temperature is continuing to drop. My children excitedly announced there would be no school today. (I double checked, just in case).

So what do we do when there is a school closing? Typically we bake and watch TV all day. The kids shrugged when I suggested this. I would love to get new suggestions on how to spend an 'ice day'. (Cleaning out the closets didn't go over well either).

How long do you think it would take to clean out these closets?

This picture has nothing to do with this post. I took it and I like it!