Sean Keene Salem/Keizer Realtor

Mary Kay National Sales Director Carol Anton recently sent this to my wife. When I read it I thought of the current economy and real estate in general.

A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up, She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, ' Tell me what you see.'

'Carrots, eggs, and coffee,' she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, 'What does it mean, mother?'

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

'Which are you?' she asked her daughter. 'When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes a long their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.

Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.


May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!!

As I sat down to write my next blog I started to stare out the window and wonder what the weather was going to be like today. Next think I know I hear one of the kids get up and start to head downstairs so being that it is Sunday of course I would much rather sit with the kido and watch some Mickey Mouse Clubhouse.

After a couple hours of cartoons, breakfast, coffee, taking the dog for a walk and some phone calls I sit back down to the computer and realize that my blog did not get it self done while I was gone. Oh wait wife needs someone to run to the store and I am the man for the Job!

I am back at the computer and still have noting to put on the screen. I start to wonder if my blog's are being read by everyone or maybe it is just friends and family reading them. I need to come up with a great idea. I need to put something down that will possible be the greatest blog ever and generate 10-15 referrals. Is it really that hard do I need to do that much work? I just need to put something down and get my name and face out there and clients will just come rolling in.

Then I come to the realization that I have Bloggers Block!!!!

So I went searching the web for Bloggers Block cure and this is what I found. On www.Lifeclever.com posted by Chanpory Rith. Here is the link if you would like to read the original. www.lifeclever.com/10-tips-for-beating-bloggers-block/

1. Lower your standards

Blogs aren't novels, so don't start a post by worrying about being perfect, insightful, original, or even grammatically correct. Take Anne Lamont's advice: begin with a "shitty first draft." Let yourself write a big stinking pile of poo. Good writing, like good design, is a process of iteration and editing.

2. Start with a headline

Do you feel pressure to write a full-length piece? Don't. Instead, brainstorm headlines for articles you would like to read yourself. It could be as crazy as "How to Get Great Hair Like Sanjaya" or as controversial as "Why Design Education Sucks Today." Even if you don't end up writing the article, you'll create an arsenal of ideas to inspire you when you're stuck. To get started, check out Brian Clark's excellent series on writing magnetic headlines.

3. End with a deadline

Never start a post without a deadline. I really believe in Parkinson's rule: work expands to fill the amount of time available. If you don't have a deadline, you'll never finish.

4. Eliminate distractions

Use clever writing tools such as Writeroom (Mac) and Dark Room (Windows) to eliminate all distractions on your computer. You'll see nothing but words on a screen, not even an oppressive clock. Outside the computer, find a quiet room, silence your mobile phone, lock out the pets, and turn off your TV.

5. Write at dawn, not at dusk

Even if it's just a hobby, don't blog before bed and after a long day's work. Take a cue from Leo Babauta of Zen Habits and 15-year old blogging phenom Glenn Wolsey. Both schedule a time to write in the wee mornings. It's quieter, your mind is fresher, and you avoid making excuses like "I've had a long day, I'm just too tired to write."

6. Take a break

Who says you have to blog non-stop or even every day? Hit the gym, go to the movies, take a vacation, and spend time with your loved ones. After all, doing real meaningful things is what inspired you to blog in the first place. If you don't blog today, the world doesn't end.

7. Automatically spawn ideas with HitTail

HitTail analyzes the words on your blog and makes suggestions for related topics you can write about. It's free and a great source for getting relevant inspiration based on your past writing. If used wisely, it'll even help boost your site's traffic.

8. Get a little help from your friends

Blogging doesn't have to be a solitary journey. Run headlines or ideas by your friends, and ask what they think. Chances are, they'll point out new ideas and angles you've missed.

9. Capture ideas before you lose them

Ideas for articles come when you least expect them. It happens as you're walking to get a donut, commuting to work, or even on the toilet. To stop your thoughts from vanishing, always carry an easy-to-use device to jot down ideas as you get them. You can go as high-tech as a T-Mobile Sidekick (my personal favorite) or as low-tech as a little Moleskine notebook.

10. Breathe

After recently taking my first Yoga class, I've turned into a true San Franciscan. My biggest realization? My habitual shallow breathing contributes to a lot of tension, blocking the flow of ideas and thoughts. I know its cliché, but take a moment to breathe deeply. It's easier to unstuck yourself when both your mind and body are relaxed.

I hope that after reading this I was able to help at least on blogger.