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THE BATAAN DEATH MARCH IS NOT FORGOTTON....Especially By One Local Blue Blood Family Member!!!

Paula I Hathaway, Senior Vice President, LBA: Real Estate Agent in Southampton, NY

THE BATAAN DEATH MARCH IS NOT Forgotten...Especially, By One Local Blue Blood Family Member!

Many members of the families of the survivors of THE BATAAN DEATH MARCH, are looking forward to the release by PBS ofCaption     American soldiers resting during the Bataan death march, May 1942, photo 2 of 3 the Home video version of the television documentary film, "The Tragedy Of Bataan" by writer/producer Jan Thompson. The series was created by Thompson after she engaged Alec Baldwin, a well known actor and a local Hamptons resident, to narrate the film. In a historic twist to the epic story, the home version of the film will be presented to local high school and Junior high school students by Patricia Birks, the daughter of one of the survivors of the Death March, over the next few months.

THE BATAAN DEATH MARCH was a tragedy of epic proportions with 76,000 American and Filipino prisoners of war forcibly transferred, on foot, by the Imperial Japanese Army to the Bataan Peninsula. Even as the American and Filipino troops repelled the Japanese for several months, they were forced to retreat to the Bataan Peninsula to wait for supplies and reinforcements. But the Japanese had cut off all routes to the Philippines, preventing a rescue by United States Military and the troops were forced to surrender on April 4, 1942. View the trailer here: http://www.tragedyofbataan.com

BATAAN DEATH MARCH--PHILLIPINES 1942A HISTORIC PERSPECTIVE

Among those who surrendered was William Rogers Birks, a direct descendant of the earliest Southampton settler, Thomas Rogers.

Patricia Birks father, William Rogers Birks, was a prisoner of war in The Bataan Death March, and appears on the "Wall Of Heroes" photo gallery in the film.

Patti Birks is a fellow real estate professional who works in the Prudential Douglas Elliman Westhampton Office. Her enthusiasm about the soon to be released 30 minute television documentary, is understandable given her connections to the Death March and her memory of her father's story of that event.

Patti Birks is a blue blood descendant of Thomas Rogers who signed the Mayflower Compact and his son William Rogers from Stratford-Upon-Avon England who came to Southampton in 1640.

Patti was born on October 13, 1950 on Navy Day, after her father Chief Naval Officer William Rogers Birks survived the Bataan Death March in the Philippines and 3 1/2 years in a Japanese POW camp.

The Rogers Memorial Library, Rogers Beach and Rogers Mansion Southampton Historical Society are named after this founding family.

I spoke to Patti this morning and she told me how excited she is to have the opportunity to share what she knows from THE STARVING, EXHAUSTED TROOPS IN BATAAN the local perspective of the Bataan Death March survivor stories. Her father left her with a lengthy story to tell about this tragic event and his forced surrender, along with many of those who survived the desperate march.

As a young and passionate soldier, he found himself in the tangle of prisoners that were being marched to the very end of the Bataan Peninsula, where they found hunger, disease, cruel treatment and murder awaiting them.

Patti is more than anxious to get copies of the soon to be released film, with Alec Baldwin narrating it. She will be presenting the documentary film to the local schools in Westhampton and Sag Harbor, New York. On her agenda for next year is the Westhampton Rotary Club and a possible presentation to Scotland Yard in London.

Patti's email contact is birksworks@optonline.net if anyone would like to connect with her to ask her questions and to possibly plan a presentation of the film to a school or other historic public forum.

Please note: Photographs are from the "Bataan Death March Images" website.

STRESS GOT YOU DOWN???...The STRESS FACTOR In Real estate Getting To You Too?

Paula I Hathaway, Senior Vice President, LBA: Real Estate Agent in Southampton, NY

STRESS GOT YOU DOWN???...The STRESS FACTOR In Real Estate Getting To You Too?STRESS GOT YOU DOWN?

As real estate professionals, we are up against almost insurmountable challenges everyday. We deal with people where they live! We have a responsibility that not many other professions have to fulfill: The Home is the place where emotional, financial and survival mechanisms are rooted. Not one other thing that an individual owns or manages is anything like the Home. Families laugh there, cry there, play there and raise children there--memories are in the walls and the floors in layers.

These STRESS FACTORS are embedded in our profession and need to be recognized by each of us in order to become a polished and ethical professional.

I find the stress from real estate is one of the most overwhelming of all the other stresses in my life--most other situations I handle with no effort, it seems. But the stress from real estate is rather subtle in it's impact on my system.

  • My back is a place where stress ends up. I just found a great chiropractor--helped me get rid of a constant pain in my neck and back.
  • Headaches come and go with the amount of stress I am having from my work...never had headaches before real estate!
  • Anger management is necessary in real estate--either learn how to manage it yourself or get help to manage it! I have fortunately found ways to get over my anger very quickly....and move on.
  • I find myself feeling resentful of the way some other agents behave...or the way a seller just talked to me. Resentment does nothing to improve yourSTRESS CAUSES MANY SYMPTONS, INCLUDING DEPRESSION attitude--in fact it can kill you!

I wanted to share with you all the idea that one of the things that we are not trained in, is how to handle the stresses from our work. Our initial training and our Continuing-ed classes never mention the STRESS FACTOR. As a result, we are in a profession that loses so many new agents in the first year of their RE career that it is a common thing to see agents leave their desk and not even say they are leaving!!!

THINGS I DO TO LESSEN THE STRESS FACTOR:

  • Deep breathing after an encounter and before a reaction
  • Relaxation techniques, i.e. meditation, self hypnosis
  • A mantra that is in front of me at my desk or on my refridgerator: "I am a worthy, honest person; I deserve to be treated properly; I am a happy, successful, and thoughtful person"....well, you get the point! Make up your own positive reinforcement.....

Established agents have ususally dealt with the stress that is built into our profession but many just push it down, try to ignore it. They may not even realize the deep influence this kind of stress can have on them and they go forward, working with other buyers and sellers without realizing they are bringing that anger, resentement and pain along with them into a new business relationship. Many become ill, never realizing that years of subjecting thier minds and bodies to this STRESS FACTOR is taking it's toll.

All professions have their stressors; all business comes with a substantial share of stress--None deal with the kind of stress that comes with a seller who is about to lose his/her home; no other profession has the multiplicity of emotions and conflicting feelings of a person who is letting go of such a personal possession as their home!

Want A Better Way to BECOME A LOCAL EXPERT???

Paula I Hathaway, Senior Vice President, LBA: Real Estate Agent in Southampton, NY

Want a better way to BECOME A LOCAL EXPERT??? Over the past few years I have shared with all of you here on AR what my thinking is about being or becoming a LOCAL EXPERT.

As we appear to be moving tentatively out of the depths of the Great Real Estate Recession, there are questions we need to ask our buyers and sellers. As real estate professionals. we know what is REALLY going on. We can pull this information together, USE IT FOR OUR "NEW" MARKETING and FARMING EFFORTS and we can even put it out there for our buyers and sellers too! We can actually be in a better position to serve the public in a more efficient manner.

We can, and should be, the guiding light when working with new buyers toward home ownership and givingWE ARE THE GUIDING LIGHT IN THE REAL ESTATE FIELD sellers the confidence needed to list their homes and to NOT over-price them.

As an example: How many of the recent transactions in your area have been new construction? This is a very important statistic that will help you in guiding anyone who has money to spend on a new home.

Or if you know that new construction is moving at a quick pace and at higher price points---why not let your buyers know that too? Why not then target your "farming" to the new construction market, and let that part of the industry know you are THE go to person, informed and prepared to handle the large numbers of "New" home buyers in your marketing area.

This applies to other segments of the market as well; for instance, do you know about an area or part of your marketing community that is a place that young buyers prefer to purchase a home? The school could be a draw for their children; the playgrounds and parks could be another one. If you become knowledgeable about all the details that the average agent does not know, that will qualify you as a local expert!

There are still many pathways to home ownership!

Since ALL REAL ESTATE IS LOCAL, there is a critical need to get the right information out there to our individual markets. In most markets, for instance, the mid-priced end has been hit harder than any other segment of real estate

Which Way Do I Go?CREATING A PROFILE of your current buyers/sellers

1. Are your "new" buyers the same sellers who sold at the height of the market?

2. Are they first time buyers?

3. How many are "all cash" buyers?

4. How many are going for financing?..and what % are they financing?

5. Is new construction getting top dollar in your area?

6. How many of your total sales fall under the "New Construction" category?

7. Is there a "desperate" seller syndrome?--buyers looking for the seller who HAS to sell?

8. Is the seller "getting it" when it comes to properly pricing their home?

9. Are sellers in your area now convinced that the worst is over and as a result, not listening to low bids?

10. What is the discount now on prices from the height of the market in '07?

11. Do you foresee further declines in prices in your area as we go into the crucial Fall market?

12. Since most markets have had significant price adjustments, do you feel like your market has reached the bottom?

When you look at the valuable information available to your buyers and sellers by evaluating the sales that have taken place in the last 6 months, there is tremendous value there! Then if you pull them together, compile them into a concise "handbook" or flyer which you can then hand to your customers and clients, The rewards for getting to the bottom of these questions could be priceless!!!

WHAT BETTER WAY IS THERE TO PROVE YOUR KNOWLEDGE OF YOUR INDIVIDUAL MARKET, AND BECOME A LOCAL EXPERT???

What Do you Have to Lose???.....How About Everything?

Paula I Hathaway, Senior Vice President, LBA: Real Estate Agent in Southampton, NY

What Do you Have To Lose???...How About Everything?

SEND OUT THE ALERT IF YOU ARE IN TROUBLE ON A DEALWhat do you do if you can't handle a situation, a shaky deal that is about to go South? a buyer who wants a house but does not step up to the plate? A deal that is contingent on financing and is about to be rejected? What do you do?

Since we are in a very different real estate market today, it is critical that we ask for help from those who may know how to handle something that we are having difficulty with. We don't know where our next buyer or seller is coming from---so ask for HELP IS AVAILABLE IF YOU ASK FOR IThelp if you need it!

I have talked to a few newer agents who think they have a handle on a situation and the next thing you hear is "I lost my deal because....."

In one case I was very up set because I told the agent that if she needed my help, I was there for her; I would be able to help her get the buyer to the table if she would let me.

Now I just heard that her deal fell apart and she is no where to be found...I called her and have not heard back so I don't even know if there is a way the deal could be revived!

Why is it so difficult to ask for help, anyway???

I don't have any qualms about going to my manager who has handled many more deals than I have! If he can help in any way, I will ask him. I also have good friends who have been agents for many more years than me and I do the same thing if I need help.

A FEW THINGS THAT "HELP" CAN CHANGE THE OUTCOME:

  • A different agent has different lawyers, inspectors, mortgage professionals that they use; ask for a list of 3 of each.
  • Get help from an agent who knows what things have sold for in a particular area in the distant past.
  • Ask for help if you know the buyer is just frightened--or ask if the other agent has ever had an experience as you have with a new buyer.
  • Zoning issues can be overcome if you ask for help from someone who has had a lot of experience dealing with local officials and zoning boards.
  • Ask for help if the seller suddenly decides they want another, higher offer than yours--there may be crucial data that you don't know about that will encourage their acceptance instead of waiting for a higher offer.
  • Ask for help if your buyer suddenly changes his/her mind--there may be some other listing available that you don't know about that will fit the bill better.

There are over 15 agents in my office who are new to the business---perfect for those who are "in training"...this is the kind ASK FOR HELP BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE!of market to begin in real estate because you have no where to go but up if you put major effort into the business. There are only 7 long time agents who have gone through other downturns, but none as deep as this one.

This is the kind of market where we all have to pull together--There is nothing to lose if you ask for help, even if you are a long term agent with years of experience!!!

What do you have to lose???....How about everything? ...ASK FOR HELP IF YOU NEED IT!

DO YOU WANT A PIECE OF THE LOCAL ADVERTISING PIE?..... BETTER GRAB IT!!!!

Paula I Hathaway, Senior Vice President, LBA: Real Estate Agent in Southampton, NY

DO YOU WANT A PIECE OF THE LOCAL ADVERTISING PIE?...... BETTER GRAB IT!!!

I hear that great numbers of Realtors are completely out of the print advertising business!....Not that they are thinking about it or analyzing it or even doing research on if they should do it or not---no! They are completely out of the print advertising business.BETTER GRAB THAT PIECE OF THE ADVERTISING PIE!

REASONS TO NOT DO PRINT ADS ARE: "too expensive", "my customers only use the internet", "print ads never pull!" or "print ads are dead!"

REASONS TO DO PRINTS ADS ARE: You can present yourself and your listings in your own market place; become the "local expert" in your niche area; take the step first before your competition does---and they will!

IS PRINT ADVERTISING DEAD?

Several months back I asked a question of ActiveRainers and I got some surprising results:

HERE IN A NUTSHELL ARE THE RESULTS:

  • The internet is still the place that most real estate searches begin.
  • Print advertising is not dead. Some forms are still a growth segment of advertising in certain markets.
  • Newspaper print ads are a very small part of print advertising.
  • Internet advertising is still the most important source for leads in lower end markets.
  • Boutique brokerages NEED to do print ads--creating the glossy, high end booklets that still pull.
  • Large Real Estate Companies use print advertising for image building more than focusing on individual properties.
  • Most small towns, villages and smaller communities continue to do print advertising if they still have a local paper.
  • Most sellers expect their properties to be advertised in print, especially if it is a high end listing.
  • Post cards, fliers and glossy brochures are still being used effectively in many markets.
  • Glossy magazines are key to a resort market....for local information and relaxation.
  • Markets that sell properties for $200k and under are exclusively utilizing the internet for advertising. As one responder wrote: "In my market of $150K houses and under: Print ads are dead!

IF YOU WANT A PIECE OF THE LOCAL ADVERTISING PIE, BETTER GRAB IT!: Get that important piece of the advertising pie before your competition beats you to it!

We know that if everyone in real estate had their choice, they would pay nothing for advertising; but we also know that nothing from nothing equals nothing.

We have all been hearing how we should be doing internet advertising, social media connections, Google +, Trulia and Zillow...and many other public real estate websites: "It's Free Advertising!" (or costs very little compared to print ads) we have been hearing this for several years now.

Sounds too good to be true to me! ...and you know what they say about that! (If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is!) This is what drove me to try out print advertising again after I had stopped doing any print ads in 2008, 2009 and until summer 2010--I was out of the print advertising business!

Then I saw a need--people were reading local magazines--looking for local information, news and "Hot" picks for restaurants. So, I picked my places carefully and limited the amount of money spent. I found that sales were coming from the ads--not that the houses shown were the ones to sell---but I got buyers and sellers from the ads.

THE MISSING PIECE OF ADVERTISING FOCUS: I use publications with a glossy presentation and a high end appeal. Avenue, Hamptons Magazine, HC&G and the Plum Magazine are all the latest venues to advertise here locally. These are high quality, relevant content, great local news magazines and they have their following. Once a week these magazines are placed in the stores, on stands at world class shops and restaurants and they are scooped up by the summer crowds.....Avenue Magazine is found in all the High Rise, high end addresses in Manhattan. Full color, full page ads pull in these upscale publications.

PROFILE MAGAZINE is published by my company and has a very long shelf life and at least 250,000 in distribution. my results were nothing short of spectacular, I sold 3 properties over $2million from 1 full page last summer and 4 houses from a single ad in the Fall 2010 issue! This Spring-Summer we did a "PROFILE Pocket book", one that fits in beach bags, pocketbooks and briefcases....a big success!

I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THAT YOU CONSIDER ADVERTISING IN THE LOCAL MAGAZINES. The relevant content of local information is key! Make sure that you get your piece of the advertising pie before your competition does! What better way to develop your local or "Niche" market than to advertise in it???

IF YOU WANT A PIECE OF THE LOCAL ADVERTISING PIE, BETTER GRAB IT!